Ladies, the first thing you need to know is that you're beautiful. Absolutely, completely, unequivocally beautiful. I’m sorry that men don’t tell you this more often. I’m sorry I’ve let fear of man’s interpretation prevent me from telling you...
This is a question every man faces in pursuing the woman of his dreams. After all, there is a lot at stake. While some men meet their lifelong partners before they even begin looking, many of us will spend...
Say Yes To Abundant Life
Why is purity important?
If you're first thought was that sexual immorality is wrong, you're not alone, you're just missing the point. As long as purity is about what I don't do, I will fail in...
Let me be clear. I married ‘up’. I’m one of those guys. Please don’t patronise me by saying ‘oh, no, she did well too, marrying you’ or something like that. I don’t say I’ve married above my batting average...
A friend of my recently posted a Facebook status about how the "Love is a choice, not a feeling" expression is stupid, because of course love comes with all sorts of feelings.
He then received the predicted chorus of "AMEN...
Last week, I asked our community here at Uncompromised Men to share what they considered the top delusions we men tend to buy into.
As I sorted through response after response, I noticed several themes developing - a core set...
When I entered the world of charismatic Christians about five years ago, the term "spiritual brother" was as foreign to me as "courtship," "side hugs" and the "laying on of hands."
Needless to say, my christianese has improved in recent...
In an earlier post in this series, I defined personal boundaries as knowing who to say yes to.
We all interact with people constantly on many different levels. Customers, colleagues, employers, family, friends, acquaintances… should we all treat them the...
You made it here with a few scars. You haven’t always made the right choices. You may be just beginning the process of healing (or perhaps you completed that decades ago).
Perhaps some of your friends have a much smoother...
I don’t know about you, but I find relationships challenging. All kinds, not just romantic. In fact, any type of interpersonal involvement! Positions and titles define things much easier. I know what is expected of everyone, and it removes...
